Myra O'Connor: Prayer Bracelets

published on Thursday, February 10, 2011 by kjm20@duke.edu

Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you.  For everyone who asks receives; he who seeks finds; and to him who knocks, the door will be opened.
Matthew 7:7-8

As the director of student ministries at my church, I spend the majority of time with children and youth. It's in the times spent with my middle and high school youth that the subject of prayer is brought up most often. 

I find that it's generally easy to get the kids to say a prayer before a group meal due to the fact that the person praying gets to go through the food line first.  We don’t allow the old standby “God is good, God is great…” (Not that there is anything wrong with that prayer -- it’s just a little too easy).  So a hungry youth will always jump at the chance to “talk to God” briefly so that we can proceed with dinner.

But recently at a Sunday night youth gathering we talked about what prayer means to each of us.  It is interesting to hear from kids their personal views on this very “scary” subject.

It seems like the kids are faithful in their everyday prayer life, praying for guidance in making tough decisions, safety in travel and sporting events, strength to get through a tough test or project and so many other daily struggles that plague teens today.  It is comforting to hear their requests as they pray for each other and for those whose lives have not yet been touched by God.  We remind each other not to be scared to share our prayer requests or to ask God for strength and comfort.  After all, aren’t we just talking to God?  He knows our prayers before we even lift them up to Him.

We also made prayer bracelets to remind us of prayer needs as well as the thanksgivings and blessings in our lives.  That night, as we were gathering to leave, we talked about how blessed each of us was to be able to gather each week and share God’s love: to come together in good times and bad and be there for each other.

When the kids departed for the night some were wearing their bracelets, some had put them on their purses and book bags, others were hung on key chains or from their rearview mirrors, while others said they were going to put their bracelets next to their beds as a reminder before their evening prayers.   It was my prayer that night as I drove home that each of those youth will continue to be in prayer through all that life throws at them.  Their bracelets may fade or break, but God’s love and mercy will be there always.

With or without prayer bracelets or other trinkets, all we need to do each and every day is to look around us and see our blessings.  Whether it’s the beautiful mountains we live in, our warm homes, family and friends, or a wonderful church and church family, we all are uniquely blessed.   We don’t need to be at church or a church event to talk to God or have Him speak to us.  We must always have our hearts and minds open to what He is asking of us and go about our daily lives sharing our faith with others.

Myra O’Connor is director of student ministries at Hayesville First United Methodist Church in Hayesville, N.C.

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Patrick Murphy: Communal Faith

published on Tuesday, January 18, 2011 by kjm20@duke.edu

Acts 2:42–47

What ever happened to “community” anyway? The earliest Christian circles certainly understood the value and camaraderie that comes with holding together a group of earnest disciples of Jesus and his Apostles. Acts 2:42–47 explains the communal aspects of the first groups of believers who “were together and had everything in common,” and “broke bread in their homes and ate together with glad and sincere hearts, praising God and enjoying the favor of all the people.”

What a way of life! Eric Peacock/FlickrIs it so far beyond our imaginations to picture such a scene today? Whenever I visit, regularly attend, or serve at a church, I always try to pay attention to the ways in which the church community holds itself together and invites new members in. Sometimes, but not always, it seems that Sunday mornings may be the only time some of these “brothers and sisters” in Christ come together, and then only for an hour or so of worship. Although I don’t have any definitive answer, what can be done to encourage Christians to come together more often…to engage in new ministries…to just share a meal together?

While in this consumerist, privatized, and individualized society it may not be realistic to envision a Christian community sharing everything in common with one another or holding daily gatherings, there is still something to be said for a deeper common life. Why is it so hard to remember having an afternoon church gathering outside on picnic tables with games and food? Why do we no more see such a thing as ma and pa sitting on the porch with neighbors and sweet tea while my brother and I play ball with the neighbors’ kids? The vision has been appears to be lost from our minds! God calls us to intentionally love and nurture our neighbors in holiness so that by grace we grow into Christ-likeness, but instead we lean on excuses such as the drudgery that comes with work, school, or home life. God has a better idea.

The Scripture from Acts 2 concludes by saying that God added to their number every day because of how they lived and how they communed with one another. Is it so much to set aside some time to bring together believers, maybe not even for any other purpose than to thank God and enjoy fellowship? I’m no pessimist, but my heart longs that I, and all of us, always remember the communal power of Christianity, how only by pulling together and embracing one another with faith and love we can begin to grow and witness to our respective communities and hearken to their needs.

God will sow believers into a church embedded in its community with love, inclusive fellowship, and intentional contact. May God add such blessings to all our ministries!

Patrick Murphy is a Rural Ministry Fellow from Elizabethtown, N.C.

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Nate Hester: Mailbow

published on Tuesday, January 11, 2011 by kjm20@duke.edu

There is one thing that the country has over the city: the golf cart ride to the mailbox.

Nate HesterSee us country folks, we live out here in the backwoods, draws and hollers for all kinds of reasons.  Sometimes, we can’t afford to live anywhere else; this piece of land might be the only thing that grandma left to momma that momma left to you.  Others amongst us prefer to be close to nature: to hear the warblers argue with the mockingbirds atop the tulip poplar tree or to sit in a deer stand all day eating packs of nabs and listening to the race through headphones.  Or, maybe, we chose to just live at a slower pace or grow our own vegetable garden or be surrounded by a community of kinfolk that can help out with Friday night babysitting. At its best, we chose to live out here because unlike in the midst of the tide of the dominant, rat-race culture, God still seems to matter out here, to speak to us out here.  At its worst, we chose to live out here because frankly, we just want to be left alone.

The golf cart ride to the mailbox is one of those spots where our landscape reveals who we really are.  It shows our true colors.  You see: we want to live far off of the main drag.  And we want to live where no one can see our house or be all up in our business. But we don’t want to live where we have to walk a half-mile to the mailbox every day; that’s just too plum far. 

So, that’s where the golf cart steps in. 

We ride, ride, ride; we let it ride.  We ride down the long, bumpy, dusty meadow strip of a driveway that come next spring after the rains end needs to be resurfaced with fresh gravel, that needs to be sprayed to keep the weeds back, and that needs a new culvert cut to prevent flooding.  This daily activity of riding reveals our independence and our ingenuity, but it also exposes the more nefarious side of our social dislocation, our antisocial libertarianism, and our autonomous recalcitrance. After all, a country boy can survive! We don’t want anyone’s help! No zoning! No federal subsidies! We can manage just fine on our own! Thank you very much!

But what meets us at the mailbox is an altogether different signature on the landscape. It is an arc, scripted into grass and dirt along the shoulder of the road, not unlike the rainbow, as if it could have been etched by the very finger of God’s self.  Since our mailboxes are set back a few feet off of the road so that careless drivers, drunk teenage vandals and oversized rigs don’t demolish it and in order for the mail deliverer to get to where they can reach the box safely, one has to veer off the road, ever so slightly, just a foot or two.  The rubber of the wheels crunches pebbles slowly and deliberately like the last of the kernels of microwavable popcorn. 

And it is not just those that deliver the parcel post either, because our neighbors and friends too pull off the road and up to our mailbox to drop off birthday cards and loaves of banana nut bread and promotional flyers to bazaars and barbecues.  Day after day, month after month, year after year, the wheels of the tires on the right side of vehicle after vehicle carve a new path.  This is a path that calls us back into community, that reminds us that others care about us, that insists that we cannot go it alone.

This path through the grass is the same arc that God carves across your heart and over the entire landscape of human history.  Every time we seek our own way in the world, rain or shine, God shows up, pulling into our driveway sometimes extravagantly, oftentimes subtly, always lovingly. 

Have you been lately to see how God has pulled off the road for you? Have you seen how God’s path has drawn nearer to you? Have you checked to see what God has left in your mailbox this day?       

Nate Hester is a Rural Ministry Fellow and student pastor of the Middleburg-Hermon Charge in Middleburg, N.C.

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